To a certain degree it is possible to
control one´s shadow. The ego is capable to hold the lurking shadows
under lock and key. This is primarily done unconsciously. But shadows
have a tendency to accumulate over time. That is: if they are not
aired out, ventilated and- best of all: resolved by a genuine
transformation of growth.
Once the shadow has swollen to a
certain size and crossed a particular threshold, it has outgrown the
ego´s controll mechanisms. It becomes uncontrollable and starts to
act out. This can manifest itself in a variety of forms of psychosis,
all of them rather unpleasant, but – mark my words, as this
perspective largely differs from common medical opinion- necessary.
The necissity
stems from the objective, the
transpersonal, that – as the name connotates- overides, if
necessary, the needs of the subjective in order to enforce a larger
order, namely: the cosmic law of Self-developement. Each shadow s no
less than a crucial missing piece in the individual´s larger puzzle,
a vital potential that is only acting out in an unredeemed form in
order to be noticed so that it eventually can be literally realised,
i.e. made real by becoming a living creative power. That is why
the individual´s ignorance sometimes
(or often ?), after many soft and kind «knockings on the door»
needs a heftier wake-up call in the
form of shadowy title waves that are beyond its controll.